Designed2bMine is more than a marriage curriculum. It's a practical, Christ-centered discipleship journey that equips churches to strengthen marriages, deepen intimacy, and build healthier families.

Click HERE for D2bM for Individual Couples.

How D2bM Strengthens the Church

Less Crisis Counseling. More Proactive Discipleship.

Equip couples with biblical tools before small struggles become major crises, allowing you to spend more time discipling than reacting.

Healthier Couples & Families Strengthen the Church

As marriages grow stronger, families become healthier, relationships flourish, and the entire church is strengthened.

Gives Leaders a Practical Pathway to Disciple Couples

Provide pastors and leaders with a simple, biblical process for helping couples grow together in Christ and in their marriage.

Video Curriculum Makes it Easy to Implement for Groups...

Choose to watch Designed2bMine in Small Groups, Sunday School, Retreats, or Counseling Ministries

**Is Designed2bMine Right for Your Church?**

Whether you're a pastor, marriage ministry leader, counselor, or small group leader, Designed2bMine gives you a practical, biblical way to help couples grow before their marriages begin to drift far apart.

Pastors wanting to strengthen marriages before crisis hits
Small group leaders looking for a proven marriage curriculum
Churches launching or growing a marriage ministry
Counselors seeking a practical discipleship resource
Couples retreat leaders

Evaluate Designed2bMine for Your Ministry

We know choosing a marriage resource for your church is an important decision. That's why we've made one lesson from each module available for pastors and ministry leaders.

VIEW A LESSON FROM EACH MODULE

Explore the teaching, experience the course, and prayerfully decide whether Designed2bMine is the right fit for your couples.

Imagine What Could Happen in Your Church When...

Couples communicate with greater grace
Marriages become healthier and more connected
Families become stronger
Counseling needs become more preventative than reactive
Couples grow closer to Christ and one another

YES! Sign us up for the Designed2bMine Journey!

D2bM is more than a course...it's a Couples Discipleship Journey leading couples closer to Christ and each other

What's Included In Designed2bMine?

Downloadable

Workbook

Each Workbook contains lesson-specific note pages for participants and "HeartWork" - the at-home assignments to encourage growth & intimacy

Downloadable

Leader Guide

The Designed2bMine Leader Guide provides session suggestions and contains an answer key and discussion questions for each lesson.

Bonus Video

Lessons

The Bonus Videos include: 5 Motives of Marriage, Biblical Boundaries to Build Your Marriage, and Deepening Spiritual Intimacy.

5 MODULES

MODULE 1

Designed2bIntimate

Connection Begins at the Heart

God designed your marriage for intimacy, and lasting intimacy begins with a transformed heart. In this module, you'll discover why couples drift apart, what's keeping you from deeper intimacy, and how God begins restoring your marriage from the inside out.

Here's what you'll take away:

Understand why couples naturally drift apart.
Discover what's keeping your marriage from deeper intimacy.
Recognize the heart issues that quietly fuel conflict and disconnection.
Learn God's design for emotional, physical, and spiritual intimacy.
Take the first practical steps toward lasting change

MODULE 2

Designed2bDifferent

Understand Your God-Given Differences

God uniquely designed each of you to reflect His image in different yet complementary ways. In this module, you'll discover how understanding those differences can replace frustration with appreciation and lay the foundation for better communication, healthier conflict resolution, and deeper intimacy.

After completing this module, you'll:

Discover how God uniquely designed you and your spouse.
Complete the InHim Personality Inventory (InHim-PI) together.
Understand why you see situations differently.
Recognize common areas of misunderstanding before they become conflict.
Learn how greater understanding leads to better communication and deeper connection.

MODULE 3

Designed2bConnected

Connect Through Communication

Great communication is about more than saying the right words. It's about understanding each other's hearts. In this module, you'll learn practical, biblical skills to communicate with greater understanding, listen with humility, and build deeper emotional intimacy. When hearts connect, every other area of marriage, including physical intimacy, grows stronger.

After completing this module, you'll:

Discover why communication breaks down.
Learn how to listen beyond words to your spouse's heart.
Help your spouse feel heard, understood, and valued.
Communicate with greater humility, grace, and truth.
Grow in the kind of relationship where you truly know and are known.

MODULE 4

Designed2bRedeemed

Improve Your Conflict Resolution

Conflict isn't something to fear. It's one of God's greatest opportunities to grow your marriage. It can become one of the greatest opportunities to build trust, deepen intimacy, and grow more like Christ. In this module, you'll learn practical, biblical tools to transform conflict from a source of division into a pathway toward deeper connection.

By the end of the fourth module, you'll:

Discover your conflict style and learn healthier ways to respond.
Turn emotional reactions into thoughtful, Christ-centered responses.
Apply practical, biblical principles to resolve conflict with grace.
Replace blame and bitterness with forgiveness and reconciliation.
Build a stronger spiritual foundation by praying together as husband and wife.

MODULE 5

Designed2bONE

Strengthen Your Sexual Intimacy

Healthy sexual intimacy doesn't begin in the bedroom. It grows from trust, emotional connection, honest communication, and God's good design for marriage. In this final module, you'll discover how to build a mutually satisfying sexual relationship, emotionally connect, and honor Christ—because meaningful hip connection grows from genuine heart connection.

At the end of this final module, you'll:

Better understand God's design for sexual intimacy in marriage.
Identify the heart and physical obstacles affecting your sexual relationship.
Communicate openly and confidently about sexual intimacy.
Better understand your spouse's desires and work through desire differences together.
Create a practical plan to continue growing in your sexual relationship.

Yes! This is What I've been looking for! SIgn me up!

PLUS THESE BONUSES! (a $397 Value!)

Bonus Webinars

Each webinar lasts 40-50 minutes and can be watched at any time in your small group.

1) Biblical Boundaries to Build Your Marriage

2) Deepening Your Spiritual Intimacy

3) The 5 Motives That Will Make or Break Your Marriage

D2bM Leader's Guide

Our Leader's Guide contains 10-, 12-, and 15-week plans you can use depending on your group's time allotment and group dynamics. Some choose to even go beyond 15 sessions and include the bonus webinars.

Physical Intimacy Resources

You can choose to share any or all of these with your small group couples (It's up to you!).

1) Physical Intimacy Conversation Starters

2) Physical Intimacy Resource List

3) Love is...In Bed Devotion for Couples

Flexibility

Each lesson varies in length, so you can watch anywhere between 1 and 3 lessons per group session, depending on the group. You can give each person a workbook, make copies of the lesson worksheets, or have members download a PDF of the worksheets to their phones. It's up to you!

You may also join the D2bM Community on our D2bM Leader Page on Facebook

(An invitation will be given upon registration)

TESTIMONIES

"Our communication has improved. We have improved our prayer life and are doing daily devotions together. We are learning to put our marriage under God. Thank you!"

- D2BM Recipient

"The things I take away leaves me with greater Godly wisdom and helps me reset my perspective when I need it."

- Former Client

"As a result of this course, we are talking and praying through situations. We are gaining a better understanding of our spouse's needs."

- D2bM Recipient

FAQ's

Do we need trained facilitators?

You won't need trained facilitators, however it would be wise to have an experienced couple to facilitate. The videos will speak for themselves, however you will need a person to lead discussions (questions are included in the Leader's Guide).

How will the course materials be delivered?

Once you register, you will be sent a link to your personal portal where you can watch the pre-recorded videos whenever and wherever you like (as long as there is internet).

Can we use this for premarital or counseling follow-up?

Of course! Pastors or counselors can assign the videos for couples before marriage or while married. There will only be one church login, so the email and password will need to be shared.

Will help be available if we get stuck?

Fred will be available to address technical issues with the course and for couples coaching (at an additional cost). You can also join our Facebook group and post questions for support there! (email@intimateconnection.org)

How long is the course?

The course has over 4 hours of biblically-grounded content. Each lesson is between 7 and 19 minutes each, so we typically recommend 2-3 lessons per Group meeting or Sunday School Teaching. This will allow 2-3 Group Sessions per Module (typically 5 lessons each). In the Leader Guide, you will see our suggestions for you, however you have the freedom to watch as many videos as your time allows. For retreats, you may want to watch 1 Module per session. The course is Designed2bFlexible, so it's up to you!!!

How much preparation time is required?

Minimal. You will receive a Leader's Guide that contains group discussion questions for every session. Participants can either download the session worksheets or you can provide them with a downloadable workbook to bring to each session. The main preparation time will be any additional activities you may wish to include, such as games, prayer, or other introductions.

Can multiple groups use one license?

YES! Your purchase of the Group License means multiple groups from the same church can use Designed2bMine for life. Each church must purchase its own license.

Can couples do it on their own?

Yes, but... Pastors or counselors can assign this course for couples in counseling, however they would need to share the church login with the couple. Pastors and Counselors can recommend that couples purchase the course separately at www.designed2bmine.com and use the coupon code XXXX for a 20% off discount.

Can we share this course with others?

A Designed2bMine with the group license purchase by a church or organization means you can watch this with any groups or Sunday school classes for the lifetime of the course. A login email and password can be shared with couples for counseling purposes. If you desire a couple a couple to have their own login, they will need to purchase the course separately. A 50% OFF COUPON CODE can be received by emailing us from the email used to purchase the group license at email@intimateconnection.org.

You can certainly gift the course to another couple you believe will benefit as well! Just register using their email address, make up a password, pay for the course, and share the information with them. It's as simple as that!